I intended to write this when it was a month to go, and then 10 days to go, and then a week to go but sometimes life gets in the way. So even though 2 days until top surgery is not the poetic reflection I had hoped, sometimes you've just got to write a blog... Continue Reading →
Why Did I Stay
April 2019 I thought Arlo and I were over, January 2020 we're starting to talk about getting engaged.
Mx
A couple of days ago Arlo and I sat down to start their legal name change via Deed Poll, and as they scrolled down the list of titles I saw 'Mx' - the non-gendered version of Mr/Mrs - and that was the title Arlo chose. Unsure if Mx was a title that all legal instituations... Continue Reading →
Some Good Things and Some Bad Things
It's taken me 22 years to realise that sometimes life is just the worst. For Arlo and I October, November, and December have been pretty awful to us. In those three months within our family there has been a number of hospitalisations, cancer diagnoses, and two people died. During this Arlo was (and still is)... Continue Reading →
'N' is for non-binary 