I intended to write this when it was a month to go, and then 10 days to go, and then a week to go but sometimes life gets in the way. So even though 2 days until top surgery is not the poetic reflection I had hoped, sometimes you've just got to write a blog... Continue Reading →
Why Did I Stay
April 2019 I thought Arlo and I were over, January 2020 we're starting to talk about getting engaged.
Mx
A couple of days ago Arlo and I sat down to start their legal name change via Deed Poll, and as they scrolled down the list of titles I saw 'Mx' - the non-gendered version of Mr/Mrs - and that was the title Arlo chose. Unsure if Mx was a title that all legal instituations... Continue Reading →
Some Good Things and Some Bad Things
It's taken me 22 years to realise that sometimes life is just the worst. For Arlo and I October, November, and December have been pretty awful to us. In those three months within our family there has been a number of hospitalisations, cancer diagnoses, and two people died. During this Arlo was (and still is)... Continue Reading →
Arlo
As I mentioned in my previous post my partner was unhappy with their current name and they've settled on a new one. It's Arlo! Taken from the dinosaur in the Disney film The Good Dinosaur. As promised I've gone back through all of my old posts and changed Arlo's old name to their current one... Continue Reading →
Why Sam Smith Being Non-Binary is Such a Big Deal
At 10 years old I very vividly remember sitting in my bedroom crying because I had just come to the realisation that I didn't like boys the way my friends did, I liked girls. Still crying, I opened up my first ever laptop and typed into Google 'I'm a girl and I like girls' and... Continue Reading →
Splodge
As I mentioned in the Top Surgery post Arlo and I are in the process of saving for their top surgery which is pretty pricey. We're hoping to have Arlo's top surgery booked for Summer 2020 (once we have the money for a deposit of course) and that is a relatively short amount of time... Continue Reading →
'N' is for non-binary 